Eunice
those whose lives you have touched and whose have touched yours are always a part of you, even if the encounters were less
than you would have wished. It is the content of the encounter
that is more important than the form.
It was really a fren catching up session on Friday because I had one activity after another.
After office when Holland V with Angel for awhile followed by Jalan Bt Merah for 1 'pok' of mj
after tat met HT for dinner at Bugis and to dempsey with Weide and Weijin for TCSS session.
My face totally covered
my face 1 quarter covered
Saturday was dragonfly with Sini, Weide, Eugene, BK, YC
Me and WD.
Picture taken with 2 other swify.
I'm gonna join the stripe family too..
As reader, i felt that wat she had blogged is closely related to our lives. Her opinion about stuff are good and tat she's able to pen in down in words.
Why do i say that?
Refer to one of her post regarding BGR and friends always ended up as relationship advisors.
Most often than ever, I'm required to be one (that is relationship advisor of cos).
taken from xiaoxue's blog
Because people in bad relationships LOVE it.
They love the drama, the mind games, the breaking and patching, the abuse, the shouting matches, the suicide attempts.
It's true! They love every moment of it!!
What's the point of advising Carrie to drop Big and go for Aidan?
No point, because when destructive people like that are faced with honest, good types, they get bored and they start unleashing abuse on the these honest, good people.
So don't be stupid like me, ok? If your friend is one of these, don't bother telling to say shit about his/her partner in an effort to make him/her leave the relationship.
i'm not particularly refering to someone i'm serious. Just a general personal perspective.
people really ask for it.
if it happen the first time, i understand totally that this is not what you want. But it happen twice, thrice or even more, isn't it what u ask for? cos u know its going to happen again but yet u still let it happen and ur heart, once again, shattered.
sometimes being advisor is not simple.
Because you dun want your friend to be sad. You want your friend to feel better. But there's really nothing much you can tell her/him.
You cant tell her how much of a jerk he is because she will not listen. (most of the time i do that) Even if she do, the tot of the partner being a jerk isn't affecting her big time.
You can console her, but still she will not 'absorp' what you say.
The only way to heal the wounds totally depend on herself. Like I always say, self pitiness is the worst. Nobody will think that you're pity if you do not think that you are pitiful.