one of my close friend told me something 3 or 4 yrs ago and i remembered clearly even up till now, and i tot maybe i can share it here. I think its rather true and applies to most people.

I was talking to her about my problems when she reminded me, " when u think u are at the lowest point of ur life, do not only think of the negative. Why don't u image life's like a valley? When u are at ur lowest point, you'll move up again and reach the top."

I think its very motivational for me. In fact, i'm impressed tat she actually could say this.

When we are down, we feel shitty. We fail to think of wat's coming up next, you never know it could be something great.

Life is full of choices. sometimes i rather not have choices, so i do not need to choose. the more choices you have, the more paranoid u are about making the wrong choice.
This good fren of mine reminded me once again that in life, we always choose. Some of us might make the wrong choice and go the wrong direction.
On the other hand, there might be more than 1 path to ur ideal destination. Again, its up to u to choose which path to take. U might end up taking a different route from your fren but at the end of the day, u might end up at the same destination, but wat matter most is the process of ur journey. Its about wat u see and experience before reaching ur destination. Of cos, not forgetting about some routes are shorter, some longer.